You should also focus on keeping your options open and continuing your search for the love you deserve. The way you communicate, the little things you do for your man, the ideas about the relationship you have that might need a reality check — all of this plays an important role in your love life. That is if you avoid making the deadly dating mistakes woman make, time and time again:. Where love at first sight proved to be all fireworks and no fire. There are wine tastings, travel clubs, networking events, dog parks, and reality shows.